Discussing the deeper issues

“Nothing is off limits,” says Uniting AgeWell Preston Community Chaplain Chris Turner of the group chat sessions he holds.

“We discuss things openly, freely and respectfully.” And the Interfaith Minister is delighted the meetings resonate with residents from a broad range of spiritual and non-spiritual beliefs.

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American-born Chris says the group discussions are well attended. With residents coming from all corners of the world, and embracing multiple religions and beliefs, Chris finds the group sessions are a celebration of spirituality.

“Some people embrace traditional religion, others don’t. Some find their spirituality in other ways, stemming back to their set of beliefs, customs and traditions,” Chris says. “It’s a wonderful, safe meeting place where they can open up and share their deep feelings and experiences, and draw on the common well of humanity and kindness.”

The group, which was born during the COVID lockdown, is still hugely popular. “I don’t preach, I don’t dominate the discussion, I’m simply there to facilitate it,” Chris says. “And the stories and insights that they share are pretty profound.”

Chris also holds an occasional sacred music circle where music that has meaning to residents is played. The group also talks about death, art, nature, and taking care of yourself spiritually, physically and emotionally as you age.

Chris says residents also meet weekly to practice a meditation called “Kirtan Kriya”. This meditation is not religious but rather is meant to provide relaxation and improves focus and memory. It utilises a combination of sound and finger movements to relax the body and mind while residents concentrate.

“At the end of each session, we also facilitate a gratitude practice, acknowledging the people, events and circumstance that we can openly express appreciation for,” explains Chris. “This is especially beautiful as participants have learned to trust each other and be vulnerable in these moments. It can create a complete turnaround in mood and awareness.”

Chris moved to “the Lucky Country” to be with his Australian partner about a decade ago. He used to work in community development and says he has always been drawn to working with older people. “Working here four days a week means I have the ability to connect on a deep level with residents. It’s a privilege to be able to share their inner journey, to connect with them about what gives the inner-longing in their souls both meaning and purpose.”